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From Gary D. (Veteran, Attorney & Author)

How Can We Best Honor Their Memory on Memorial Day

I believe we veterans are a living tribute and have a solemn duty to bestow honor upon the memory of our fathers, mothers, uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters who gave the full measure of devotion in defense of our country and in defense of each other.

As I get older, the depths of my feelings and emotions mature while I seemingly become less wise. Everything, and not just physically, was somehow easier when I was younger. I no longer have all the answers I enjoyed with my youthful wisdom.

I am not sure how best to honor those who died: for me, for my brothers-in-arms, for my family, for my future and for my freedoms.

One of the happiest days of my life was when I married my true love at West Point on Memorial Day, May 30th, 1970. So, when someone wishes me a “Happy Memorial Day.” I can beam with the happiest thoughts and reflections of that wonderful day. However, having departed for Vietnam the day after I returned from my honeymoon, the happy thoughts are as quickly departed and replaced with the evocative memories of my fallen heroes.

As I do every Memorial Day, I will return from marching with my local VFW in its annual Memorial Day Parade filled with high school marching bands, boys & girls scouts/soccer teams and hundreds of volunteer firemen. For all our parades, the veterans are always invited to lead the parade, even in front of the politicians. The small crowds lining the streets always clap the loudest for the veterans. I know they will soon dissipate to enjoy cook-outs with family & friends in this beautiful weather. I, myself, am looking forward to my own family being with us for a bar-b-que.

So, to the question of how best can we honor Their Memory on Memorial Day.

There is a phrase in the bible: “Who will honor him who does not honor himself?” As living tributes, I believe we must act honorably to honor the memories of our fallen. I believe we honor the memory when we accept honor. Allow the citizens to honor us in any way they choose, whether it be clapping when we pass in review, placing us on a dais, bestowing upon us proclamations or certificates or simply being the recipients of a “Thank You!” I think it is our solemn duty to demand honor. We are the voices of the deceased; we are the reminders of the deceased; we are the living tributes of the deceased. It is our duty to rekindle patriotic fervor in the beating hearts of our country-folk, to remind them by our honorable presence of the supreme sacrifices of our fallen heroes. I truly believe we are the living medals earned by our fallen heroes.

I believe our country deserves to be happy and free, because that happiness and freedom was bought with the blood of our fallen heroes. I think our fallen heroes would appreciate that our country is happy and free and would gladly accept that as a wonderful tribute to their sacrifice. So, I personally am not disturbed to note that our people wish each other a Happy Memorial Day and celebrate the onset of summer.

I am also thankful. I am thankful that I once was young and soared with eagles. In my youth I did not adequately appreciate the full measure of the men with whom I served. Never again would I be in the company of men who would routinely offer up their own lives to spare mine; never again would I share unqualified trust and know that I was equally trusted. The respect, admiration, honor and love for these men with whom I served grows with each passing Memorial Day. I am thankful and prideful for all who served.

On Memorial Day I also salute the Gold Star Families and promise to honor them with my own living tribute.

God bless all veterans!

Gary D.   (I had the profound pleasure, honor and tremendous fortune of serving as Platoon Leader to the heroic men of 2nd Platoon, Charlie Rangers from Aug’70 thru May’71. I completed my tour as a Captain with its Headquarters element, the 17th Aviation Group, Tuy Hoa.)

Photos From West Point

Photos From West Point
Photos from Vietnam
Photos from Vietnam
Photos from the induction ceremony into the Ranger Hall Of Fame (2011)
Photos from the induction ceremony into the Ranger Hall Of Fame (2011)
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From Cathy A. (Attorney, Age 52)

Recently, after years of taking care of themselves and their three children, my elderly parents made the choice to move into an assisted living facility.  In that facility, I noticed that there is a Wall of Honor, dedicated to those men and women who are residents and served in the U.S. Armed Forces.  The photos of these proud people, both in uniform and not, reflect generations who knew hardship, sacrifice and pride.  I look at the wall when I am there and it takes my breath away to be in the presence of such amazing people.  They are what is right in this world, both now and in times past.

For several years, I worked as a contractor to the U.S. Army.  During this time I had the honor of meeting and getting to know many men and women serving in the ongoing wars in which the U.S. is engaged from all branches of the military.  Many people refer to the World War II generation of service members as the “greatest generation,” a title rightfully earned.  However, as I had the privilege of meeting today’s soldiers, airmen and sailors, I firmly believe we need to realize, understand and appreciate those who volunteer today to serve, protect and defend the U.S. and democracy around the world.  These young men and women are just as dedicated, valiant and understated as those that came before them.   I know that 70 years from now, these same people will have sons, daughters, nieces, nephews and young friends who will be walking into a place that has a Wall of Honor and will realize that, once again, this is what is right in this world.

To those who have endured or are facing the hardships, separations and dangers of being deployed to a war zone, I can only say a very humble “thank you.”

Photo to come!

Project Update – March 4, 2014

I’m happy to report that the Words For Warriors Project is underway in earnest. I have gotten some great submissions from a wide variety of people who wanted to express their support for our military men and women.  There are now submissions from a great-grandmother, a teenager, a ten year old, a veteran, a newly minted American citizen, a couple of attorneys, a retired toolmaker and a worker in a nail shop.  It’s gratifying to see such a lovely array of participants.

I am starting to reach out into the larger community.  I have composed a letter explaining the Words For Warriors Project which I will send to local churches to see if there are members of their congregations who might like to participate.  Those letters will be going out tomorrow.

I have a couple of meetings set up this month, one with a veteran’s group at a large manufacturing plant and one with a single veteran who may have advice/suggestions for connecting with more people and for places for distribution once I have enough submissions to bind.

If you’ve already made a submission, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  If you haven’t, won’t you please take 15 minutes, jot a note and send it along to words4warriors1@gmail.com?  As always, I appreciate your help spreading the word.  The more submissions we get, the better!

Remember a simple kind word can be a very powerful thing!

Lynn

From John S. (Lt. USNR, Age 85)

To all of you guys and gals who served in our armed forces,

Thank you for all that you did on our behalf and what you gave for the well being of our country!

As an Ole Guy now, I was one of you, 65 years ago.  I served in the Navy on a “Tin Can” (Destroyer) during our conflict with North Korea.  Our main assignment was anti-submarine duty….we escorted “capital ships” (mostly aircraft carriers for security).  Secondarily, we were deployed to patrol Wonson Harbor (North Korea), communicating with Navy, Marine and Air Force pilots that were injured or had damaged aircraft over North Korea.  We advised them of our position and directed them to head for the ocean where we would pick them up thereby helping them avoid capture which was a strong possibility if they went down in North Korea. We took a couple of hits during this action but sailed on (trying to avoid deadly floating mines).

I hope that you young guardians of America know how much your present endeavors are appreciated and wish you the best.

John S. Lt. USNR

John

From Kevin B. (Attorney, Age 51)

As a warrior you are someone who accepted the responsibility to fight for those who could not.  In many instances it may feel that what you did was unnecessary or unappreciated, but here in the States there are a lot of people who depend on what you did to protect them, their property and ultimately their way of life.  We are free to go to the gym, have dinner with our friends and or families, pursue our careers and even go to the shopping mall because you are did the heavy lifting for us.

While there are those who do not say so, it may come as a pleasant surprise to you that many of us do.  Your service is in our conversation at lunch, our thoughts while we are driving, and the emails we send to each other expressing our appreciation for all that you do.  While you are not privy to these conversations please be assured that you are in them often.

While we do not say it often enough.  Thank you.

Kevin B.

Linda L. (Finance Analyst, Age 50)

You are brave. You are my heroes. I’ve never been concerned with politics, because I LIVE IN AMERICA! America has changed. America needs more people like you. Our country is no longer as free, but I thank God that it is still the home of some that are brave. As long as there are brave men and women willing to stand up for what they believe in, this country may stand a chance. I have started to voice my opinion. I may be able to support our country, by fighting for our liberties, after all. You have enlightened me. Thanks for all you do and for showing me the way.

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From Mark M. (Contractor, Age 55)

Marine's Prayer

 

I REFUSE TO BE DISCOURAGED

I refuse to be discouraged,
To be sad, or to cry;
I refuse to be downhearted,
And here’s the reason why…

I have a God who’s mighty,
Who’s sovereign and supreme;
I have a God who loves me,
And I am on His team.

He is all-wise and powerful,
Jesus is His name;
Though everything is changeable,
My God remains the same,

My God knows all that’s happening;
Beginning to the end,
His presence is my comfort,
He is my dearest friend.

When sickness comes to weaken me,
To bring my head down low,
I call upon my mighty God;
Into His arms I go.

When circumstances threaten
To rob me from my peace;
He draws me close unto His breast,
Where all my strivings cease.

And when my heart melts within me,
And weakness takes control;
He gathers me into His arms,
He soothes my heart and soul.

The great “I AM” is with me,
My life is in His hand,
The “Son of God” is my hope,
It’s in His strength I stand.

I refuse to be defeated,
My eyes are on my God
He has promised to be with me,
As through this life I trod.

I’m looking past all my circumstances,
To Heaven’s throne above;
My prayers have reached the heart of God,
I’m resting in His love.

I give God thanks in everything,
My eyes are on His face;
The battle’s His, the victory’s mine;
He’ll help me win the race.

Written By BJ George, But “Inspired By Our Lord Jesus Christ”
Copyright@ BJ George

From Kirk S. (Business Owner, Age 57)

I wish I could find a stronger word that describes the true meaning of “sacrifice”, as it relates to what you gave: most notably the time away from your family and loved ones, watching your kids grow up in front of your eyes, waking up to peaceful serenity and just enjoying some of the small and basic enjoyments in life that many of us take for granted.

Many of you risked your lives every day in areas around the world protecting us from the true evil that still exists. You all define the simple words most of us really don’t deserve to use in comparison to how you use them: words like honor, integrity, leadership, dignity and dedication.

I have a wife and two kids (which are two Huskies). Our lives are comfortable and precious – thanks to you! Your selfless service is greatly appreciated and respected. We owe you our deepest gratitude.

For the very Freedom you provide – Thank you!

Kirk S.

 

Kirk

 

From Blase G. (student, age 10)

I am thankful for the troops because they defend our country. They are willing to sacrifice their life for American citizens . When I am old enough, I want to be a weapons maker and designer. That sounds like a good career.  This would help Marines while doing something I enjoy.  I want to help them succeed in defeating the enemies of America.

From Betty S. (Great Grandmother, age 80+)

To our servicemen and women,

It’s hard to express how grateful we are for all you are did in defending our country.  As a former Navy wife, I know the anguish your family and friends went through until your safe return. There is also so very much pride!

We fly our American flag daily.  You will never be forgotten.

Betty

We fly our flag every day!
We fly our flag every day!

From Barry T. (Retired Toolmaker, age 67)

A salute to all our troops,

Here’s one American who is behind you all the way.

This is a quote from Jeff Cooper of Gunsite fame, that I think may be relevant to those of you who served or are currently serving in hot zones.

“Having been mildly annoyed by the commonplace salutation, “Have a nice day!” for some years now, we were delighted recently when, after filling our tank and taking our money, our local friendly fuel dealer waved at us and said, “Shoot straight!” We intend to adopt that expression, and we hope that our friends will too.”

This ‘Shoot Straight’ may also replace the admonition to ‘Be Careful’.

I offer this in memory of my dad Carl, who had been there and done that in WW II.

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With all the respect you deserve,

God bless our troops!

Barry T.

From Tina C. (Nail Technician, age 32)

My parents came to America because of the war.  They had to plan and slip away quietly.  In those days, you weren’t allowed to leave Vietnam.  If the government found out, they would put you in jail so they had to do it in secret.  They left everything.  One night they quietly went down to the river to a boat.  The boat took them to another island and then from there they came to America.  They wanted a better future for themselves and for me and my brother.  Education was important to them.  My father became a citizen and I became a citizen about two years ago.

The day I became a citizen I was very excited.  I wasn’t nervous because I know American history.  Some people were nervous but not me.  I had a lot of knowledge and I studied.  When I was sworn in they played a song, The Star-Spangled Banner.  It made me cry because I was happy and proud.

I think our troops are like heroes.  They protect us and they keep us safe. They work very hard but very quietly.  We thank them for helping us, for everything they do for us.

Who will protect America if we don’t have them?

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